It is no wonder I stay confused. Braveheart are you trying to say that people on here that are standing for their marriage are having FALSE HOPES? I know you all have seen alot, but everybody that goes through a divorce is NOT on this board, right? So there is no way, in my opinion, that you can give out statistics. Honestly from what I have read, and I have been doing ALOT of reading, I think most regret what they have done. That doesnt mean they will come home. Like you said, they wont admit to doing wrong. But I will tell you this, I know my xh better than anyone, well the old him anyway. If he wanted to come home, he would call me up and say hey we need to talk and in his words. "If I want to come home I will come home". When he said this I responded with, "well dont you think you might ask me first". and he said, "Yea, I would talk to you about it". If he wants to do something, he does it, doesnt care what no one thinks of him. Just look what he HAS DONE already. He just dont care. BUT right now, he is following ow around like a little puppy dog, from what I hear. She makes it clear to everyone, which is childish in my opinion, that my xh is HERS now. LOL. She even writes his name in all caps "MY XXX". lol Yes I look sometimes, just for fun. I am ok, it doesnt make me cry.
I thank GOD everynight/day for my heart healing. Yes its healing slowly, but its healing. I also pray for everyone here. I want GOD's will to be done. That's all I want.
