AFWAW, I started typing my reply before reading the others...please listen to BobbiJo, dburt, AJM, and PDT. If you cannot do it for yourself do it for your daughter...I know it hurts you so bad right now but one day (soon) the pain will lessen ( I do not think it will ever go away, so sad) but you will deal with it. Do not get the mindset that your life is over...it is not and because I think you think your wife is who you want to grow old with I want you to have what you want...you will find someone incredible for you...do not sell yourself short, YOU WILL HAVE A GREAT LIFE with or without her.
