but, because he knows I like them... not sure if it's because he wants to watch them w/me.
IMHO, this means the same thing. if he's doing it because he knows you like them, he is doing something out of love. if he wants to you to watch them with him, it is out of love. He may not be IN love with you at the moment, but he still loves you. the IN love part, is the feeling that comes from loving a person. confusing, I know.
also, the date thing.... do not make it out as a date. just say, hey, lets go out to eat, you wanna go to that one great place? or, have you seen that such and such movie yet? lets go see that tonight!
and if he says no, say, okay cool, and then go with your friend instead! Look really hot and be all excited!
on his comment about only staying for the kids. your right, you can't believe that. that statement only came out of his feelings, the feelings that he is unhappy and thinks he can never be happy in this situation. He doesn't remember the good times, only the bad. He has no idea that things CAN be incredible, and better than it ever was. So don't be upset that he is stupid. lol
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
