<< I am hopeful that they will slide as opposed to sticking like they have done in the past. It depends on how much you have invested, sacrificed, hoped and dreamed with respect to the M.
<< She made choices. i happen to think they are wrong choices. if you talk to her i am not sure she would agree with me. In fact I am sure she believes she made the "right" choice. Even if she doesn't she will pretend she made the "right" choice.
<< Time will tell...but i am not sitting around waiting....And time waits for no one, and it won't wait for me.... If time won't wait for you why wait for time?
I know "Sponge Bob" bandaids make my D8 feel much better, so I guess there are special one's for big guys too ;-) Somehow I always believed that human beings were not like wild beasts with respect to mating practices, but after seeing all these sordid 'sitches' I don't know what world I was living in all this time.
Anyway I think you have an excellent healing attitude!