every time you have her right where you want her, you allow her to get back in control. She is still with the other man, she is hedging her bets, if she was not getting it with OM, she would be home getting it from you. (it being everything she needs). I do not think I would do the date thing anymore, you are wayyyy too busy. It is amazing how close you get to totally blowing her mind, and then a couple of words by her and she grabs your balls back.
