WOW! What I wouldn't give to be able to do what you did. I too worry about the impact on my kids, but every time I've brought it up, H just gets mad and says I'm blowing it out of proportion - they'll be fine. You said it perfectly!! You go girl! Thanks for being such an inspiration. I too will pray for you and your family Psalm 51.
In Limbo--
Unfortunately, having been a child of divorce, I am better positioned to explain the long term repercussions on a child, even a teenager.
I could never have had this conversation with DH a year, even six months, ago. God had to do a lot of work in me to get me to this point and we still have a long way to go. Hopefully DH will jump on this ride sooner rather than later, but it will all work out to God's glory.
See my comments to kara Re: inspiration. I also thank you for the prayers. I cannot wait for the day I can tell DH about how people all over the world cared enough about us to pray for us and our reconciliation.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7