Hi, I am at my wits end. My husband of 9 years will not come near me. He says he loves me, but is not in love anymore. We are seeing a C and I am practicing LR, but his unwillingness to have a physical relationship with me is driving me nuts! I feel like he will never remember what it feels like to be close if he keeps shutting me out. I am trying so hard to stay on track, and we are relating better day to day, but I dont see any change in his lack of desire. I know he is not having an affair, but he has always been the one with a higher sex drive. He says that I beat it out of him over the course of our marriage. I need some advice how to get through this....I feel ugly, worthless and hopeless......
