Ok, just got a call from the wife. She said she's not ready to come home yet, doesn't want to deal w/ the responsibilities(hell, neither do I at this point but I don't really have a choice now do I?). I just listened and she said she's not ready to come home yet. She said she'll know when she's ready and she'll let me know and she wants to keep talking everyday cause she misses me and likes talking to me. Ok, I guess that's a start, hell we weren't even talking before. Well, at least I had some good news today--my bronze star was updated in my permanent records. I'm hoping for two more pieces of good news this week as E-8 results come out on Thursday and wouldn't it be a miracle if my wife wanted to come home as well to make it a hat trick? Am I a dreamer or what? I had it out w/ my D tonight as well about the way she's acting towards me as well and told her I understood her frustrations about everything that has been going on but that she's only making it more difficult on herself and everyone around her by the way she's acting. She is sweet and promised to do better and I told her that I loved her and that she has been phenomenal and that if she needed to talk about anything that I would be willing to listen, just make sure you tell me and don't keep acting the way that you have been. She said, ok, Daddy. What a long, long day. Well at least I had stuff to do today. Well, more tomorrow.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!