Does that mean they come running back to the former spouse? I say definately NO! For them to do that, it would mean admiting they were wrong in leaving to begin with, these people are absolutely not going to do that! Trust me on that one! I know there are a few that do, but a very few!
There are some WAS that do return and admit they were wrong. My H has been one of those that has admitted he was wrong, said it should never have happened and does want to return to the M, although we haven't reconciled yet because we're still working through issues. Yes there are few that do want to return but none of us can be certain who those few may be. There are definitely examples of couples that have D and then reconciled. How can any of us who only know the sitch over the internet tell another for certain that their spouse will NEVER return?
Sunshine, like I said before you must now move on with your life but miracles can and do happen.
Addie, you are right when you say that a FEW do return, but trust me, I have been on here long enough to tell you that 99% of them do not. I know there are people here who will jump on that and say "you never know" "I'm going to stand" etc, etc. and that's fine! Everyone has to do what they think is best, I'm not putting them down for it, but in saying that, you cannot ignore the obvious. I read where you and your H are working through things? Good for you, I hope that it works out for you. Bare this in mind, he still hasn't come back, keep your guard up. I'm not trying to be negative with you, just talking from experience. I have seen many people in your position in the past, just be careful. I truly hope it goes your way.
