It is so smart of you to realize that you aren't there yet. Yes the time will come. The one thing you certainly don't need right now is a band aid. You need to heal and feel good on your own first.
I think several of us are working towards that. So glad to know that I am not alone. It is so hard to believe it has been 9 months...I could have had a baby by now. lol
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory