Hi, I just moved here from separated. We have been separated since July and plan to reunite in Aug. We had a whirlwind romance, moved in together 6 months later only to separate when I realized he had drinking problem. He supposedly got control over it and we went to MC before moving back and getting married one year later.
One and a half years later I had had enough and we separated. I thought it was end for good. He had a bad history with R so I didn't expect that he would feel different about me. He continued to pursue me while still drinking. I refused to reengage with him while he was still drinking. I found this site at Christmas time and it helped me to think clearly and set goals for the M.
AT the end of Jan. he had an awakening that convinced him to stop drinking for good. He has 90+ days, attends meetings, has joined a church, and goes to therapy. Once the drinking had stopped we had other issues to deal with. We were polarized until three weeks ago when he had another breakthrough in his therapy. I have two children who are finishing HS and college.
