Ah, yes..."thriving on the chaos". Yet another milepost along Crazy-@ss BPD Boulevard.
The only way a Borderline feels any sense of calm is when they are right in the middle of a sh!t storm. And if there isn't one, they will make sure to create one.
Yeah I'm gradually becoming quite acquainted with the disorder...
Her mom has either got it or she is hopelessly attuned to it at this point. It seems as if the in-laws became more crazy and I became more sane after I got W to move back in over there. From everything I read in her journal and my early experience with them - their life was hell dealing with her. After she started dating me, she stabilized for the most part, and so did their family. Now it seems like the chaos has come back, as I've crossed into the split-black stage.
Mutual friends aren't immune. She has been cutting contact with anyone who doesn't toe the line.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
