I am wondering if the pastor may pull Dan aside in the next couple weeks to try to talk with him.
I have thought a lot about this sort of thing. Sadly these "authority" figures often don't want to stick their necks out. There was a fellow 'joe' on here who tried in vain to get his WAW to come meet the pastor. Granted they can't force Dan to change but they can certainly try to go out of their way to get thru' to him for whatever its worth in a matter this important. And pastors themselves have A's and get D's.
