small world, i am on the island. h worked in the nyc area and had him switch jobs so that he wouldnt still be in the same environment.
2 1/2 years is long and scary. looking back, i do not know how i held on. but really, it is minute to minute. and like i told him, he kept me interested, kept things looking promising enough to give me hope. i could not, and would not, have waited if things between us weren't showing signs of improvement.
the battle never ends, and maybe that is a good thing. if we get too comfortable and let our guard down, we may revert back to old ways, or our spouse may revert back.
this type of situation changes you forever. i always trusted him, never gave thought to not trusting him, we had the most perfect life a person could ask for - and bam, that is all out the window.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
