Actually surprisingly, I am a girl who loves Hooters! (The restaurant) I love the original wings or the chicken sandwich with HOT sauce. If my nose runs, it's hot enough...
Hi Bbj, As long as the H doesn't get anything really HOT in his eyes?
John, I think the hurt and anger resurfaces from time to time if my experience counts for much. There will be occasions when you can't help but feel the pain of a D that you did not choose - when your daughter is exposed to things, when you do not get to see your children enough, when the exW continues to do hurtful things, when you have to say goodbye to huge sums of money (one time and often monthly for a long time) that the WAW makes off with which either gets squandered or ends up in the hands of an OM, you will feel betrayed and used/abused and all the useless efforts to "save" it just adds insult to injury, I could go on and on. All that you are doing now is good but really just bandaid but you do need this to keep your sanity.