Is there any hope or is the damage done

[MrBond]

I hope it is safe where you are innishannon. It seems like your H is deep in denial of himself and is lashing out at you.

Is there a woman's abuse treatment center you can go for counseling? They will have much more information for you to use and can tell you if your H is becoming a threat to your well-being.

Please be careful. If I were there I'd personally kick your H's @$$.