Originally Posted By: Rob1231
SD said it well (she's pretty smart, ya know!)

It is detachment - but it is Loving Detachment.

Wrap your head around that idea - it is incredibly powerful!


Ya Rob I know, I have been around on this board for a long time. You do need detachment but for the right reasons. I think I have finely learned to take care of myself. David is right about the pursuing. I think I was even pursuing by doing things for her.
For those of you that I wrote about the Hair spray.... YES it is an affair that is only in my head. Another lesson learned. NOBODY can make you sad, Happy, jealous or angry without YOUR permission. When I found that It WAS SOMETHING probably LONG FORGOT by my Wife. But I LET IT GET TO ME.. Thanks for letting me vent to you and getting it out of my system before I did something stupid.

Enough heavy thinking today.. Oh ya luna... I made chocolate chip cookies btw

well got to go lite the fireplace it's raining outside..

37 more days of being employed taking the weekends and my week long father son trip out....

Bye
Doc


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know