Hey Bobbi...thats lovely that yuor pastor was so supportive and helpful to you, he sounds like a nice guy !
I had no idea that this was a problem from right at the start of your M and even before that.
I will say though, that I am not sure I agree with your pastor when he says:
"That is the very verse that Pastor said Dan needed to remember when he is out chasing after "things" in life--that he needs to be content with whatever he has.
Kerry the Pastor said he would love to counsel us both or even just Dan, he would really like to help him. He said he can see that Dan is lost and now the whole porn thing makes it all fit together..."
...we are sexual beings and this starts when we are very youmg. His predilicion for porn (what kind?) and sexual gratification are "hard wired" into us, roots go WAY back, probably to his childhood/teens. I am not sure you can be 'cured', not by a pastor anyhow. Dan likely needs serious psycho-sexual counselling.
