So what is it about your Marriage that you want to save?

This is not a contest between you and the OW, because your Husband is definately not the prize.

Be honest Addie.......

What exactly do you want out of this relationship and exactly how much work are you willing to invest into it.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.