I too have some of the same items on my to-do list - except the boob job! I've been working on repeating to myself "Do what you are supposed to do, when you are supposed to do it, regardless of how you feel about it at the time" and it has helped me to be much more productive both here at work and at home.
I'm going to keep with this as it is working and really helping me to focus on doing things for me.
As for your other comments, yes, I am a bit lonely right now and I do feel like my life is on hold. So, I'll be in this pattern for a bit longer, but as long as I'm still exercising and taking care of my priorities (by enforcing self-discipline), I'll be able to get through it just fine.
I know you've said before that my XW will really be ticked off when I start dating someone I really like. Well, I had an old profile from "Match" printed off and in my stack of things on my desk. This weekend, I was looking for something and D saw this profile and began saying "Daddy's got a girlfriend! Daddy's got a girlfriend!"
It was cute, but also sad in a way. I know the day will come, but I'm not ready for it now.
