Does that mean they come running back to the former spouse? I say definately NO! For them to do that, it would mean admiting they were wrong in leaving to begin with, these people are absolutely not going to do that! Trust me on that one! I know there are a few that do, but a very few!
There are some WAS that do return and admit they were wrong. My H has been one of those that has admitted he was wrong, said it should never have happened and does want to return to the M, although we haven't reconciled yet because we're still working through issues. Yes there are few that do want to return but none of us can be certain who those few may be. There are definitely examples of couples that have D and then reconciled. How can any of us who only know the sitch over the internet tell another for certain that their spouse will NEVER return?
Sunshine, like I said before you must now move on with your life but miracles can and do happen.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz