Hi BF45, I think we've crossed paths before on here somewhere? (like the title BTW).

I've lurked around in this part of the boards since my STBX filed for D in February, and just can't work up the brass to start a thread here actually declaring it is almost over. Actually, 6/9 could be the probable day if not any sooner that her L works with mine on a settlement.

Like most, she's been living with OM since last July and this week is about the time we functioned as married. So to me, at this point the D finally happening is a relief in a way. We do have 2 boys that complicates things.

I guess there is a theme here. As more and more issues get resolved in court and there's left to squabble about, the more hope is shown of becoming friends again someday. [this got nasty].

Hang in there (everyone else as well).


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11