Right, so have you thought about what you're going to bring up about this homework not getting done? It needs to get sorted now.
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A smile here, a touch there but I am just very tenative about it.
Why? Are you not confident about any contact? Due to her response or lack of? I'm such a hard a$$ that I struggle to sometimes be kind here....maybe she needs to initiate the touching, kissing, homework. Is it possible to discuss this in MC? Sometimes I wonder if she's just not going to dig her heels in and live like this until the kids are grown. (did I say that out loud?)
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And as far as emotions not getting into it, like always I do the best that I can but its difficult because being total unemotional is hard for me its not part of who I am. Always working on that though.
I will fully admit that in my prior post I asked you to do something that I have not done before. Stay in an R and detach. Just thought I'd confess that.
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Yes, I have thought about what I am going to say at MC about our homework not being done. I want to see how the MC handels it first and what my W says and then discuss it from there. But I do know what I want to say.
Is she waiting for the kids to graduate, maybe, that crosses my mind and I have posted it here also but I cannot do anything about that. I need to stay in the here and now and let whatever she may or may not do in the future to her. It's out of my control and if that is what she is planning then she will have to live with it and her choices.
All I know is that I am trying to do the best that I can and that is all I can do.
