I agree with everyone else. Maybe this will help Gabe get his act together. In the meantime, you take care of your life. I know you care about him but you are not his mother and he needs to grow up. You cant control and shouldnt what he does with his life. Marc is his child and I want to believe he will try to stay in contact as much as possible if he in fact moves away. Maybe Marc can visit him for a couple of weeks while we sail off on the MLC ship to Mauritious or somewhere
Asking for help is nothing to be embarassed about. You are such a giving person you will be doing the same for people once you get on your feet again... (not that you havent been already) Love ya K