Wow, Mish. That is the very verse that Pastor said Dan needed to remember when he is out chasing after "things" in life--that he needs to be content with whatever he has. Thanks so much for posting that.
Kerry the Pastor said he would love to counsel us both or even just Dan, he would really like to help him. He said he can see that Dan is lost and now the whole porn thing makes it all fit together...
Sandy I knew porn could be a big deal but I was looking at the A's and at him walking away from me. Pastor and I talked over an hour about that stuff, only THEN did he say that something must be filling the void if we aren't intimate. And I said, "Yeah, porn."
He looked up and said "Seriously? You know that?" I said yes, since before we got marrie; I found c.c. bills after we married totalling over $1,000. He said "Well if I had known that, it changes everything. As long as he is addicted to porn he will never be able to be your husband. And he knows it and knows it has control over him, that is why he is so torn up inside."
