I agree. Dont pursue. Let her know your interested in working on your R but not waiting/pineing for it. She's still playing games. Still testing the waters. I'll come back if... No conditions on her part. You've done and promise to continue to work on you just like she needs to promise to work on her. So far it's all one-sided. Have you seen accountability from her yet. She told you the truth, but is she truly sorry for what she did??? It's the whole mindset that scares me. So what if OM is out of the picture. If she's not commited then there will be a line of OM's. She needs to know that this is going to take work and you are willing to do the work. Hopefully, it will be with her. She's still playing with your emotions. Still playing HS games. Hold on to your NUTS man!!!
