Things dont look or feel good because you are not detached. Once you are detached whatever she says or does wont have any effect on you. You are worried she is pissed so you are not detached.
When there is so much anger on her end nothing you can do will be right or helpful in her eyes. Go as dim as possible. That is not to punish her but to create space so you can detach. No sense adding more fuel to the fire. If she wants to be pissed then let her be pissed but you dont have to be the object of her anger if you remove yourself from that equation. Let her deal with that all on her own, its nothing you can fix or change right now and trying to do that will only push her further away.
