Counseling

[Bagheera]

So in men's experience, the urge to f*ck and the urge to have an O must be nearly the same urge or feeling, and that is why to Baggy, it would seem to be a frustration for a woman to get f*cked but not get an O. But for me, I can get f*cked and certainly have no urge to have an O and yet it is still an amazing experience....there is no way to underestimate that urge to get and that feeling you get from being f*cked.

If you think about it from nature's standpoint, a female doesn't need to have an O in order to want to get impregnated, so maybe that will help this make more sense to a man?

I don't know, Baggy, if you're reading, does this make any sense at all?

It does! --> Thanks, DQ.

RE: (the underlined text): they aren't the same feeling in a man, but they are most definitely linked sequencially. In goal oriented male mentality, you seek the f*ck first, and once engaged, you automatically drive for the orgasm next. And if the drive for an O gets interrupted, -frustration- follows.

Again, thanks for the explanation: it makes me feel better about our MUTUAL enjoyment of those -occasional- me->man, you->woman, yank-panties-down-and-drill times.

-- B.