Hoosier at the very least write the letter to get it out of your head and feel good about writting it. Once it is out...then decide whether to send it or burn it.
You do sound amazingly good. : ) So good for you. A success story.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK