I did nicely let him know that i enjoy his company and our d-4 does too but it will have to change when the D is final. Was that dumb to say? I was hoping that he might think about that before the D happens.
You read both books, what do you think?
Personally, yes it was dumb to say it. Little bit of pressure on your part to make him miss something...(hopefully on your part) It was a trick/tactic.
He is already more than likely thinking about how it will change after the D since he is actually getting along with you a bit more with those small talks. You reminding him, willing to bet, reminds him of the wife he didn't mind leaving, capice?
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