Your pastor is right in that if he's addicted to porn, he can't be there for you. That's so sad. Sexual addiction sucks but unless Dan realizes (& I think he does, that's why the confusion) he needs and can get help for it. He is going to keep on spinning.
Maybe if you start running your own ship.. he will want to board, but even then he will still need help as this has been a long term problem. The problem with this one is it's everywhere and easily accessible.
I think Dan's guilt is eating him alive. I really think he thinks he can't get over it... and he doesn't want to hurt you by doing it "in your face" anymore. I also know Dan hasn't thought about that deeply to realize any of this. Escapism is the game....
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
