I love the turn of events. From the outside looking in, it all sounds very promising. I also loved that you told her that you are not willing to move and leave your job. It shows her a change. It's also great that she will move. Get her away from OM. Don't be too afraid of the long distance. Maybe tell her to take the job and you guys can take it slow. Even if you are willing to move, I would think that you should right away. Don't want her to think that you will drop everything and run to her. I think this is God working everything together for your good. Sounds wonderful. Have her move and let her know that you do still love her but you want to take it slow. Just a thought. I got so happy to read your update though.
And I too am struggling with that hollow feeling. Sometimes, its like I'm existing but not living. A piece of us feels lost.
