Is this a mid-life crisis?

[misshim]

I'm new here but I do believe my husband is having MLC also. What a roller coaster ride. My H left in November 2008, and i begged w/him.(dumb idea) i know. Finally after reading both books I realized alot about myself & H. I try 180's but I just can't understand him. Now he wants to come over on Friday night with fish fry's for us and our d-4. Our divorce is for June 29, 2009 (his idea) and i'm desperatly trying to hang on. He likes to come over & put his d-4 to bed but he just started hanging out after her bed to "small" talk. Nothing about our R only about his aches & pains and how he hates parents house. I did nicely let him know that i enjoy his company and our d-4 does too but it will have to change when the D is final. Was that dumb to say? I was hoping that he might think about that before the D happens.