I agree with Donna. I am going through some bad stuff myself since ex filed bankruptcy and everything came back to me. Now I have had to file as well. Doesn't seem to bother ex in the least.

Anyway, everyone may need some help now and then. Don't feel bad for asking. You may find that you have several options that you hadn't even thought of. Sometimes you show your strength by knowing you need some additional help and asking for it.

hugs, kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory