Tread carefully here, AF. From your description of the conversation it sounds like she is back in the drivers seat. She is still questioning if YOU have changed and if YOU will be the same. It wasn't you that had the A, it wasn't you that 'forced' her into the arms of those OM. Don't accept any blame for that as that was all on her!
I'm praying for ya buddy, but I didn't hear a whole lot of anything in her last convo except that she expects YOU to have changed; to me that still sounds selfish and script for a WAW.
DITTO. I think you're back in "pursuit" mode, and that rarely (ever??) works. I personally think you'd be better off listening to Hoop and Gooch, but we're not in your boots and you have to do what you think is best.
