Right, so have you thought about what you're going to bring up about this homework not getting done? It needs to get sorted now.
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A smile here, a touch there but I am just very tenative about it.
Why? Are you not confident about any contact? Due to her response or lack of? I'm such a hard a$$ that I struggle to sometimes be kind here....maybe she needs to initiate the touching, kissing, homework. Is it possible to discuss this in MC? Sometimes I wonder if she's just not going to dig her heels in and live like this until the kids are grown. (did I say that out loud?)
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And as far as emotions not getting into it, like always I do the best that I can but its difficult because being total unemotional is hard for me its not part of who I am. Always working on that though.
I will fully admit that in my prior post I asked you to do something that I have not done before. Stay in an R and detach. Just thought I'd confess that.
