After rereading my post I could see where you could ascertain that. I ommitted something though. She did admit that she was getting her payback for spending money previously in the past as she had almost no money. She also that she took me for granted as well and wanted to change that as well.
I think the reason this started was that I opened the car door for her when we got done with lunch. She said, oh, what's this? When I got in the car, she put her hand over and felt my forehead. She asked if I was feeling ok. Hey, the small things do make a difference I guess. We'll see what the outcome is shortly and I really hope it is shortly as the weekends and nights are absolute hell for me at this point. And trust me, if she comes back, don't expect her to be making all the decisions again. Everything that I do will be approached much differently. I was a bit immature in my approach to everything we did and when I didn't get my way it was evident to her that I didn't like it by my attitude. I have a lot of new knowledge that I would LOVE to apply to my new relationship with my wife if she will JUST COME HOME!!!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
She asked if I was feeling ok. Hey, the small things do make a difference I guess. We'll see what the outcome is shortly and I really hope it is shortly as the weekends and nights are absolute hell for me at this point. And trust me, if she comes back, don't expect her to be making all the decisions again. Everything that I do will be approached much differently. I was a bit immature in my approach to everything we did and when I didn't get my way it was evident to her that I didn't like it by my attitude. I have a lot of new knowledge that I would LOVE to apply to my new relationship with my wife if she will JUST COME HOME!!!
