I'm so happy for you Lucky. I'm just almost swooning with how romantic it is, the fact that you and Mr. Lucky are now beginning to ignite your passion and fire...knowing in my heart that you are headed toward a bliss that neither of you have experienced before....
I'm so glad that you did tell him straight up what he could have possibly lost. Also so glad you found "us" and other resources before you got close to walking away. I know if you hadn't stumbled on these resources, then about another year or two from now (assuming there had been no changes) you would have had one foot out the door. When it gets to that point, its very hard for the nearly-LBS to make any changes that will help. But you sought out help BEFORE getting to that point, thankfully. And because of that, you very likely saved your own marriage.
And because Mr. Lucky DOES indeed have a sex drive, you are now very likely headed toward a fairy tale ending....
(tweet tweet...birdies flying around your heads....balloon hearts popping in the air....hey wait a minute, how did a leather whip get in with these Disney pictures in this romantic fantasy?)
LOL!
OK I'll go and update my own thread now, and I have to inquire about a few other peeps around here on their threads...ie: where IS everyone???