The adventure continues--part 5

[AFWAW]

I do not think it is time for divorce but there is nothing wrong for you to prepare yourself legally. No matter what the outcome is you can do no wrong in paying off as much joint debt as you can. If she is still paying bills you had and her apartment (unless OM is giving her money?) then she has to be using savings or credit cards. Again, hope for the best and prepare for the storm. Her moving out and leaving your daughter is not going to look good...make sure you journal the conversations...handwritten is best. Leave it at work in your desk or locker. Do not leave it at home for her to accidentally find.

I am prepared legally. She is still paying all the bills and her apartment. Funny you should mentiont that, she talked about that again today.

I also don't think this is a time for divorce. I think it's time for her to move back home.