Yes Ms Melancholy...I've read that it is not wise to fight the D....It just makes them more determined and they could wind up hating you too. I didn't fight mine. I did not lift a finger to help. I said I would sign them if thats what she really wanted, but I would not help with the 500.00 filing fee as I did not want this nor was I the one who wanted my freedom. She also had proposed to me. I was a bit immature but I said "Since you're the one who wants to throw away the marriage, then you do the work on the divorce" Something like that. I have been goaded into arguments which I've read is a BIG no-no. Yes, this whole business IS crazy and we probably are too, BUT, if you love someone despite all of the craziness, what the hell, you just have to go with your feelings.
