Very good JMC! Yeah, Gary Fencik! Loved that guy. Yale graduate plus he was crazy..hit like a truck. BK is short for bankruptcy. I did not get hurt. Ironically, I had signed off on the house(she owned it before I met her) when she decided to start using it to get a credit line to pay for some cosmetic surgery....tuck job. I've worked hard most of my life, thought it was a crazy, insane idea and said I wanted no part of it, which of course caused problems. If I had not done it, I would be divorced AND have a BK. Well, it cost her because she had to use additional monies to pay for it, got in over her head and now is waiting on the foreclosure papers. It is a long story which I will detail more another time. All of this happened after I moved out. She actually had 2 surgeries. Also pissed off her work as she took 3 months off last year to heal so she is on thin ice there. I guess she had the doctor or whomever write notes saying that she was still in pain, etc. I know this is a bit hard to follow, but I don't have all of the details on how she got away with this. I know her pay was cut to 70% during that time off and that was the nail in the coffin financially. She got pregnant at 17, her mom gave her two choices: Have an abortion or leave. So ex still holds A LOT of resentment for that even though her and her mom still talk. She was overweight in her 20's and most of her 30's and is now a marathon runner. I met her just after she did the 26 mile run here a few years ago. She trains like 6-7 days a week obsessively. Gets up at 5, goes to the gym, then work, then back at the gym til 9pm. Its crazy. Anyway, she wanted her freedom mainly to pursue her um, running career and not have to answer to my bitchin about how her time is spent. She has dated, but I guess nothing stuck. Then again, when you're training most of your free time, thats no big shock. Her daughter says she is always in a crabby mood and starts fights with her here and there. I've never seen anything like this. Plus she just bought an expensive bike for a triathlon here in August...just after coming out of BK and with the knowledge that she is going to have to move before summer's end.Don't even know if she has the money saved for rent and security. But that day that she has to move IS coming. I don't know how a foreclosure works or how long it takes, she BK'd in March, and still has not been served or whatever the bank does in this situation.
