Wife ended her affair because she realized it was confusing her. She has mentioned that she was realizing that I had been able to do all the things that she ended our marriage for and that now she was dealing with issues that came up after the separation.
That same week she got a job offer in another city. So I have moved and now she is thinking about moving.
She is asking hypothetical questions like would I join her or could we work on the marriage over the distance. She still is having trouble committing to the marriage again.
I told her I would not like to leave where I live now because we separated initially because of my instability in work and now I have it.
She is worried that things will just be the same all over again but I know they won't.
I have gone on and gotten a life and it is nice to know that I can enjoy life, but when the day full of events is over I still feel a little hollow.
I have already backed way off but this week is a major point with her job decision and our marriage. I want to influence her to be my wife again but I don't want to get in her face.
