I look forward to hearing from you in a couple of days.
I have just had my wife pick my children up instead of me having to drop them off, she was returning from wherever she had been the night before. She looked good and I acknowledged that. As a part of my new anticipation mindset I washed and ironed the childrens dirty clothes and pygamas from the last couple of days. I also gave them dinner, both of them a shower and hairwash, put their clean pygamas back on ready for bed, saving my wife having to do it when she got home.
I gave her all the childrens things, put the clean clothes into a bag and gave that to her also. She never really acknowledged this other than a 'thank you'. It was the reaction I expected so I was not surprised. She seemed very upbeat, probably because she is now into PA mode, I noticed she was not wearing her wedding rings, clearly these are a thing of the past. I was itching to say something but I didn't. I have a sneaking suspiousion that the OM does not realise she is married with two children, or she feels comfortable in the fact our R is over and she can act like a single woman now. I was dying to ask her but again I didn't.
Lastly, she asked me what the court papers regarding our divorce said, I shrugged it off and said it was just information regarding costs, though inside I felt it was her making sure things were speeding along (it hurts). She seems so sure about all of this and I just now somebody will conviently be unveiled after the divorce when the time is right.
Anyway, her and the children waved goodbye and all seemed to go quite well considering the situation.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
