Hi, Just wanted to say I'm not in the same boat as both of you. Yet, I am going down a similar river. My H & I have become more like friends again. Our pretrial D date is next month. Still don't totally want a D. Yet in an odd way it seems to be what is best, to bring us closer. Crazy.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)