Newcomer, want to keep my hope alive!

[iwantittowork]

I feel for you bugwaterguy, I don't have the A to deal with at this time, so I don't even know what your going through.

Our sitch are different, but try and look to the DR techniques, this has already helped me out. You have to work on you.

Do you have kids at all? I just found out that it could have legal consequences (At least in my state) if you move out on your own, and can be seen as 'abandonment' in a future legal proceeding.

That's kind of shocking to find out, as my W had been asking me to move out, stay with my parents, etc, though I don't know if she knows of the legal jeopardy there, although she has been through a divorce before, and I have not.