Vicky,

Other than I wish you hadn't have asked HIM for names of who you can date (looks manipulative and purusing), I think you handled it BEAUTIFULLY.

Esp. this:

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I said (and I was firm too but not yelling), H what are you working on, you say a lot of tings but your actions show different. And, no I don't trust you!! And he said can I wait and he'll be back home by the end of the summer, and I said, no that is not fair -I will not put my life on hold like that. Then he went on to say maybe I could just go on a few dates and I stopped him and said no you cannot dictate that. Then he said that maybe him and I could start back dating and I said no I don't want that, I will not go with you with you living where you are. Absolutely not. You would need to move out. He then tried to convince me that we should start to date and I kept saying no way, not under these conditions. He also talked about how he's tired of all the headaches and he wants to get his life together and I said but you are not taken steps to do that. I even told him what was it that we said as children, words are wind.


Fan-freaking-tastic. You hit the ball into his court beautifully. NOW LEAVE IT THERE.

Puppy