I don't think MrRegret is solely taking the blame. It's just that his W needs to hear that she really did try in the past for him to make some changes but she can't get over the fact that it took so much pain to achieve what she has been asking for all this time.

I think she wants some acknowledgement that she did make an effort in the past. She doesn't want to punish MrRegret, she just want her feelings validated and heard, which is what most women want. This is one woman's opinion anyway.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'