Ok, I went and met with the evaluator for D9 today. H took them last night (I don't think he's ever taken them on Sunday night). He seemed upset when I was there, I guess he didn't want me to go. I had these long questionnaires though that she had mailed me and just finished them up yesterday plus brought copies of the evaluations the kids had 5 years ago. Got to sit there for a few hours while D9 was tested. I said one or 2 things and H didn't respond. He texted while I almost fell asleep on the couch. Same old H.
The evaluator hadn't called me or left her address and wasn't in the packet when I looked for it last night, just a po box. I called her this am to get an address, and she said she had given all the info to your husband on Thursday. I told her he gets very busy (she also knows we're getting divorced) and asked her to tell me the info directly in future. Then I was going to take D9 the rest of the day as H has to go to work. He asked her well do you want to go stay with S15 or mom and she chose me. We were almost to the car and he called me back and said they had made plans for D9 to go swim with a friend from H's apt. tonight. So she decided she wanted to go with dad so she could do that. We also have to meet tonight for me to get S15 (he left him at the apt.) b/c I have to take him to the dentist tomorrow for cavities/fillings. He is going to take D9 tonight and take her to the testing which I said is fine b/c at the same time I have to be across town with S15.
I'm hoping I'm just being paranoid, but I'm starting to worry about the whole custody issue. You know his first paperwork he wanted primary custody of the kids. He was so busy with OW it was kind of moot, but I'm actually afraid right now that they broke up, and he's planning on custody again. What do y'all think of this stuff???
