Mark, you did quite well. Good for you for keeping upbeat. Remember, I told you that your W will still see what is lacking in your parenting.

Don't worry about it, it's hard to break a long long pattern. Just do what you've been doing and she will notice the difference, believe me.

You really are doing great. Give yourself another big pat on the back!!


As for your W's comment on ' You should know their schedule by now' I think she was embarassed for not bringing the schedule as she said she would, so she went on the attack instead. But you played it cool and didn't let her reel you into an argument, you dodged like a pro, good for you.

You are doing the right things, Mark. Read your goals everyday to remind yourself to keep on track. It really helps.

Best of all, you are officially an ENGAGED DAD now. Give yourself another brownie point!

Check back on you in a couple of days. Best, PM.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'