Episode IV: A New Hope (?)

[dday101798]

Just an update after taking a break from this.

Court on the 4/21 was pretty much a bust, STBX didn't show, her L almost didn't either. I now have everyother weekend visitations and my regular Wednesday nights in exchange for giving her support. Truth be known, I think i liked things the way they were before.

Oddity of that day, my L asked me "when exactly was the last time you rejected reconilliation?". I said,'excuse, I NEVER rejected that and she never offered'.

The game has now changed over and things don't look so good. Apparently now that the "he's suicicdal" card has lost it's value, they are now going with the "he's a drunk" card. My darling BIL and former 'renter' apparently have construed a tail of their own, up to and including a created photo of "my refridgerator" stocked full of alcohol and no food for the kids. Ummm, yeah, real cute guys, I not only fed my kids, but each one of you and your kids, I think the blade of your knives in my back may have pierced one of my lungs.

So, seeing that the everyone else has everything to gain by lying about me, I opt to rather not pursue this any further. In interest of preserving my dignity to the kids, and not turning this into a mud slinging contest, my L has been playing phone tag wither her L trying to make a settlement.

STBX continues to act stranger and stranger with each occurance. If she is having second thoughts NOW, you've got to be kidding?

Haven't heard from the kids since last Wednesday, kind of stinks. I am definately giving S10 my phone for his birthday so that I can keep in touch with them without having to go through her.

They're ever more upset about not wanting to move far away with her, all I can tell them, is that's for them to speak up on in court.

That is all I think.